Marie in the Princess school

[Jo of Palatine]

Originally Posted by Al_bina

Very interesting point. I dare to assume that the protocol in Asian culture is as formal and rigid as in any European one.

Surely, probably even more rigid as we can see with the Japanese rules of conduct when it comes to their Imperial family. But it's a different set of rules, that probably made the switch more difficult.

[Royal Darkness]

It wasn't my aim to discuss the line of succession. It wasn't my aim to discuss in which situation Marie will become Queen of Danmark...

Even as a "normal" Princess (and not as the CROWN-Princess) it will be necessary, that she will learn much about Danmark, the Danish history, etc...

But one question: We already have Countess Alexandra who will help Marie and maybe a Lady-in-Waiting and some Danish teacher, etc...
And we have Crownprincess Mary which Marie - she said it in the interview - met twice and the meetings weren't very intensive... Do they live at the same place? How often will they meet each other in the future? Is Crownprincess Mary one of the "real" teachers, we can name in combination with Marie's education or is it just the (romantic) hope - that Crownprincess Mary is so nice, that she will help Marie as often as possible?

What is about the Queen? What will she do to educate or train Marie?

[Lilla]

Originally Posted by PR Princess

I guess I have to ask the same question to my professor?

What a very good idea - and if you will share the answer with us here on TRF, I will be very glad. But of cause you don't have to

[Lilla]

Originally Posted by Madame Royale

I wonder how Marie's introduction to 'all things Danish' shall be conducted. Whether or not it shall be something similar to Mary's 'education'
i'm not so sure. Given Mary's position amongst the family is considerably different to that of Marie's, I could understand if an alternative course were taken.

Perhaps it won't be so 'exacting'and expectations won't be as high as they were with Mary. Infact, I think that already proven at the engagement press conference where Marie addressed the media in english.

I think - wether Marie is going to learn how to speak danish or not - depends upon the way she, Joachim and QMII defines her role. If she is going to be a housewife hardly without anny officile dutys, then speaking danish isn't nessesary. But if she is going to preform official dutys in a scale similary to Alexandra, IMO speaking danish is a must. Not because there is any formal rules on the issue but because danes are not good at welcoming foreigners, setteling in Denmark, if they don't speak the language. Her becomming a princess woun't change this attitude among danes - quit the opposite.

[Royal Darkness]

Originally Posted by Lilla

I think - wether Marie is going to learn how to speak danish or not - depends upon the way she, Joachim and QMII defines her role. If she is going to be a housewife hardly without anny officile dutys, then speaking danish isn't nessesary. But if she is going to preform official dutys in a scale similary to Alexandra, IMO speaking danish is a must. Not because there is any formal rules on the issue but because danes are not good at welcoming foreigners, setteling in Denmark, if they don't speak the language. Her becomming a princess woun't change this attitude among danes - quit the opposite.

Well... I read, that Marie will take over the whole "live" of Countess Alexandra. So the role is already defined. She won't be a "housewife".

[Royal Darkness]

For all those who want to inform themselves about the "line of succession" ...
Take a look here (german):
Thronfolge (Dänemark) - Wikipedia
or here (english):
Line of succession to the Danish Throne - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

[ricarda]

Originally Posted by Royal Darkness

I think that Countess Alexandra is a person who will help Marie so often it will be possible.

Is Alexandra one of the "real" teachers, we can name in combination with Marie's education or is it just the (romantic) hope - that she is so nice, that she will help Marie as often as possible?
Marie didn't talk very friendly about Alexandra during the engagement interview although she already met her several times. Actually Alexandra seemed much more enthusiastic about their relationship than Marie - but then Alexandra always knew how to make things appear more positive than they really are. I personally think they will have a polite relationship but that will be all. I definitely don't see Alexandra as one of Marie's teachers. IMO neither would Marie want that nor would Alexandra take the trouble.

[Lilla]

Originally Posted by ricarda

Marie didn't talk very friendly about Alexandra during the engagement interview although she already met her several times. Actually Alexandra seemed much more enthusiastic about their relationship than Marie - but then Alexandra always knew how to make things appear more positive than they really are. I personally think they will have a polite relationship but that will be all. I definitely don't see Alexandra as one of Marie's teachers. IMO neither would Marie want that nor would Alexandra take the trouble.

Marie didn't talk badly about Alexandra either. IMO Alexandra has every interest in the world to see Marie get settled in Denmark in the best possible way, as Marie is going to spend a lot of time with Alexandras children. That doesn't mean that Alexandra is going to teach Marie how to be a princess but it surely is in Alexandra interesst, that the stepmon of her children, can provide af secure and loving enviroment for Nicolai and Felix, when they are in the care of Joachim and Marie.

If one of the things necesssary for creating such an inviroment, is for Marie not to feel a huge an overshadowing pressure (because of the role as princess), it will only be natural for Alexandra to give her the best advise she can give - if asked. On the other hand Alexandra has to have a sense of propriety as she can't just mix herselfe up in the new marrige of her former husband like Joachim can't mix himselfe up in her marrige with Martin.

[ricarda]

I didn't say Alexandra has no interest that Marie settles well and gets along well with her sons. But this thread is about Marie in princess school, who is teaching Marie to become a princess? I don't see Alexandra (or Mary) teaching Marie how to be a princess. This is really just a romantic idea IMO.
It might be possible that Alexandra gives her advice if she is asked. But I personally have the feeling Marie is not going to ask her. And considering how things turned out I wonder whether Alexandra is the right person to give advice.

[Lilla]

Originally Posted by Royal Darkness

For all those who want to inform themselves about the "line of succession" ...
Take a look here (german):
Thronfolge (Dänemark) - Wikipedia
or here (english):
Line of succession to the Danish Throne - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

Thanks for the links. I just want to add, that the system of male-preference is going to be changed. It will be a part of the formal procedures included in the upcomming election to parlament at the 13th of november this year. After that date there will be no gender-preference.

[Lilla]

Originally Posted by ricarda

I didn't say Alexandra has no interest that Marie settles well and gets along well with her sons. But this thread is about Marie in princess school, who is teaching Marie to become a princess? I don't see Alexandra (or Mary) teaching Marie how to be a princess. This is really just a romantic idea IMO.
It might be possible that Alexandra gives her advice if she is asked. But I personally have the feeling Marie is not going to ask her. And considering how things turned out I wonder whether Alexandra is the right person to give
advice.

Wether Marie is going to ask Alexandra for advice or not, niether of us knows - only Marie. Considering how things turned out - Alexandra might be exactly the right person to ask.

Anyway I agree. The idea of her an Mary teaching Marie to become a princess is more of a romantic idea than a realistic one.

[alex001]

Originally Posted by Lilla

Wether Marie is going to ask Alexandra for advice or not, niether of us knows - only Marie. Considering how things turned out - Alexandra might be exactly the right person to ask.

Anyway I agree. The idea of her an Mary teaching Marie to become a princess is more of a romantic idea than a realistic one.

I doubt either of them would actually sit down and give her the tips & tricks of princess-ship (is that a word?) but I would expect that she would pick up something from conversation with one or the other of them. I'm sure the Queen will give her some advice, as will Joachim.

[politikgirl]

Originally Posted by Jo of Palatine

But then Alexandra came from a totally different culture - society in Hongkong works very different from that of Denmark or other European capitals. While Marie grew up in Paris and Geneva and attended an upper-class school in the French (formal) style. So I guess she already knows how to behave on a top notch party and a formal dinner and only has to learn things she needs to know as a new Danish citizen.

I don't dispute that society in Hong Kong is very different from its Danish counterpart, but I don't think behaving at a "top notch party" or a formal dinner is something that people from Hong Kong aren't used to, especially someone with Alexandra's background. As a former British colony which was at Alexandra's time (and arguably still is) a very cosmopolitan city with a lot of European influence, a high class party or formal dinner in the "Western" tradition isn't exactly alien to people from Hong Kong. I think it's more important to point out Alexandra's transition into royal life, rather than "upper class" life. Furthermore, while Marie grew up as an upper middle class, or upper class, woman, I don't think that's quite the same thing as running in aristocratic/royal circles, and I don't think her upbringing necessarily prepares her for the royal life, which is arguably very different from simply living a wealthy person's lifestyle.

[BurberryBrit]

Originally Posted by politikgirl

I don't dispute that society in Hong Kong is very different from its Danish counterpart, but I don't think behaving at a "top notch party" or a formal dinner is something that people from Hong Kong aren't used to, especially someone with Alexandra's background. As a former British colony which was at Alexandra's time (and arguably still is) a very cosmopolitan city with a lot of European influence, a high class party or formal dinner in the "Western" tradition isn't exactly alien to people from Hong Kong. I think it's more important to point out Alexandra's transition into royal life, rather than "upper class" life. Furthermore, while Marie grew up as an upper middle class, or upper class, woman, I don't think that's quite the same thing as running in aristocratic/royal circles, and I don't think her upbringing necessarily prepares her for the royal life, which is arguably very different from simply living a wealthy person's lifestyle.

Actually, it's quite possible that Marie had/has aristocratic friends, given the schools she went to. Obviously, Marie was well connected, as she attended a party that Prince Joachim did AND her father did business with Prince Henrik.

And I agree that neither Alexandra or Mary will be giving Marie tips on becoming a princess. Just doesn't sound realistic.

[dazzling]

Im pretty sure Marie will have a few people who will teach her & help her in her role just as Alexandra did and Mary has. I dont see why she wont get the same help.

[politikgirl]

Originally Posted by BurberryBrit

Actually, it's quite possible that Marie had/has aristocratic friends, given the schools she went to. Obviously, Marie was well connected, as she attended a party that Prince Joachim did AND her father did business with Prince Henrik.

Maybe. But I still stand by my point that Marie's life, however privileged it has been, may not prepare her for royal life. Princess Diana was aristocratic and ran in those circles all her life, and that didn't necessarily prepare her for royal life, particularly the parts of that life that weren't just parties and formal dinners.

[Stefan]

Originally Posted by Lilla

Thanks for the links. I just want to add, that the system of male-preference is going to be changed. It will be a part of the formal procedures included in the upcomming election to parlament at the 13th of november this year. After that date there will be no gender-preference.

Really ?? I had thought i has to voted with 2/3 majority in 2 Parliaments and then there has to be a Referendum.

[Lilla]

Originally Posted by Stefan

Really ?? I had thought i has to voted with 2/3 majority in 2 Parliaments and then there has to be a Referendum.

I don't quit know the technicallities but as the primierminister called on the election, he also said in connection with that, that the law on succesion would be changed - how that is going to happen in reality - I don't know. But I don't think there is going to be a referendum.