KitKat2006
Courtier
- Joined
- Aug 9, 2009
- Messages
- 610
- City
- Oldenburg
- Country
- Germany
She was in no need. Sweden is a socal state which gives people all opportunities. She was not going hungry and she could have gotten an education. She does have quite normal parents. So where is the need? Apart from the need to be admired and in the center of attention?
You have pretty much said it all...this young woman did not exhibit her body because she had to...she did it because she WANTED to.
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The standards for Royal spouses keeps getting lower and lower and lower...and with Sofia the bar seems to be set the lowest of all. I wonder when will their subjects will finally say ENOUGH?
Why always this "need"- and "social state"-excuse when it comes to how she earns her living? I don't get it. She choose this job because she wanted to be a model. I don't see something wrong with that. And because she wanted to be in the spotlight. But not even that is a bad thing. millions of people want to be in the spotlight every day in every place on this planet. Are those people all narcissistic, exhibitionists and opportunists? Every actor, every model, every politician? And don't give me this "she posed nude, therefore she is all that above and more, because posing nude is just a little step above being a whore (and yes, exactly that are you and others impling)"-excuse.
There are a lot of other famous and rich people who posed for nude magazines, because of other reasons than being in need. So why is it so unlikely for Sofia to just love this job for itself? Why is it so bad that she just graps one of the opportunities this jobs gives her. Everyone of us would do the same in her job. Just because you don't need an education for the job "model" it doesn't say it isn't a hard and respectful job. And don't give me this "she doesn't have to be nude if she wanted to be a model"-excuse again. She choose it like millions of other girls, too. Those photos are not playboy-photos, I know that, but they are not Armageddon, too.
Most of the photos of her are WITH clothes. I just know of a few WITHOUT clothes (and even those I regard as find out ones limits/options, nothing more). So where is the problem? Her modeling career may regard just 10% of her life. There are other things like her upbringing, her family, her schooltime, her hobbies, her friends, her experiences, her favourite films/foods/color/music, her pets, etc about which we know nothing of, but that means those things aren't not as important for the person Sofia is.
We "just" know her worklife in which she does respectful bikini-shots and in which are just about 10% photos a lot of us can't aprove, but exactly those photos are choosen to prove, that she isn't a good person for the spot (as CPs girlfriend) she lives in now. So we're just fighting/discussing here about 1, 2 or maybe 3 % of the essence of Sofia? That's more than pathetic, don't you think?
I think she deserves more fairness. And I also think CP does deserve more fairness. And I'm more than thankful that I grew up in an open-minded, non-conservative country.