The Future of the Danish Monarchy

[kathia_sophia]

women tend to live longer than man, but thats a whole new topic.

as for this matter, a ederly monarch doesnt necessary pass on more duties to the heir just because he is sick or dying.
its USUAL in ALL monarchies, that a King/Queen when is old enough, makes the heir work harder on their belief. In case, age makes a trick and takes the life of the monarch, the heir is full ready take their place!

[An Ard Ri]

Originally Posted by American Dane

No the Queen will have a cigarette in her hand until her last breath if she can help it!
I realise she's a heavy smoker and isn't young anymore (though 71 is not really old anymore either) but my grandmother is a very heavy smoker, 87, and has no illness related to the smoking so I think we'll have Q Margrethe around for awhile

I hope so.

[pgm1952]

The Danish monarchy seems liberal enough and in tune with the country enough to survive. I would love to see a Frederick X (the current crown prince) and even a Christian XI (his son). This is the oldest monarchy in Europe, the family are decent and open, and they are liked enough by the Danes to warrent keeping around.

[Madame Royale]

The Danish Monarchy exemplifies a workable cohesion with boundaries. By that I mean they are a visual and prominent part of the community, who can freely mix, shop, excursion, eat out and contribute with minimal fuss. In a sense, they are allowed a degree of normality perhaps not shared by all other royal families.

People while being naturally curious and wanting to wave or say 'hello', remain conscious of their space and that they aren't regular citizens.

It's like an invisible line that can be crossed but people are considerate and concerning enough to respect it.


It appears to me theres a real sense of tribal belonging in Denmark. Traditionally a small oceanic nation of farmers, fisherman and hunters, it is an old community with a great sense for modernity. The balance is key and it's beautiful to behold. I've experienced the richness of Danish culture personally, and there is a pride to it that resonates such warmth.

It really does exhibit aesthetic traits of a fairytale like Kingdom, imo.

[nwinther]

To Muhlers question re. F&M taking over.

Personally, I see it just as much a need from the CP couple to perform actual work, than a stepping-back from the Queen's part.

There's been a lot of critizism in Denmark from dissidents thinking that especially Frederik was just living it up. This may have hit the mark with F&M.

Or maybe it's just a development on Frederik's side, that he want's to do more actual representation. Surely this is a good idea both to the CP, the Queen and the country, as the Queen is supported (and won't burn out so fast), Frederik get a lot of XP under his belt, and the nation feels that the CP couple are pitching in "for real".

All in all it's for the better for all of us.

[Viv]

I am more and more inclined towards the Dutch tradition of abdication in
due course. Long waits for the top job are not necessarily good! HM should keep in mind the fate of another CP Frederik, later Frederik the 8th,
who ruled for a mere six years.
IMO the Queen has done a good job over the years, but -again IMO time
has come for a change if our monarchy has to survive in the long run.
HM does her best to hide that she is 'old school royalty', but she
doesn't always get away with it. She is certainly not of the 'bicycling' variety, and I believe that she is only rarely seen in Copenhagen-shops
these days. (Her shopping sprees are mainly in London, where she'll only
be recognized by other Danes.)
The other two Scandinavian RFs seem to have adjusted to the age
they're living in, like taking up humanitarian matters in a multicutural
society, the Norwegians in particular so.
IMO CP Frederik is about getting the hang of this, but it's definetely not
the style of his mother.

viv

[American Dane]

I thought I'd repost this here from the Danish State Visit thread

Originally Posted by American Dane

Wasn't he receiving professional help with speaking during the IOC congress before he was elected? I believe they showed that in the DR documentary.

IMO I think Frederik has a "clutter"
Cluttering

I say that only because I suffer from it as well and it is very embarrassing. It explains why his speeches on paper are excellent but do not come out fluent when he speaks.

[Muhler]

Originally Posted by American Dane

I thought I'd repost this here from the Danish State Visit thread

You may be right. And I guess you are pretty qualified to judge whether someone "clutters". In that case, there is professional help to get, I presume? Just as with stuttering.

Frederik did indeed get professional councelling in connection with the IOC. It did not turn out well, in my opinion! Whoever coached Frederik outh to have been sacked.
It's my impression they focused much more on what he was supposed to say, rather than how to deliver it. Result: a double flop.

[American Dane]

Originally Posted by Muhler

You may be right. And I guess you are pretty qualified to judge whether someone "clutters". In that case, there is professional help to get, I presume? Just as with stuttering.

Frederik did indeed get professional councelling in connection with the IOC. It did not turn out well, in my opinion! Whoever coached Frederik outh to have been sacked.
It's my impression they focused much more on what he was supposed to say, rather than how to deliver it. Result: a double flop.

Since cluttering doesn't have a physical component to it like stuttering, it is harder to get treatment the way a stutterer could. Also, it is both more unknown and more subtle than stuttering. It took a caring teacher to actually catch mine.

Perhaps the fact that Frederik received that help means that he'll be less likely to be offended if someone offered different help? I really feel bad for him but I also think his speaking endears him to the Danish people maybe as its very human to not be perfect at everything. Is that right?

[shari-aree]

Prince Frederik and Princess Mary will make a great team as King and Queen!
I have read that he is shy, but most shy people are compassionate < and that is a definite trait that is needed for a Monarch.
He is the first born son of the Monarch, so he will be King, he should be respected and allowed as much private time as can be afforded him now - don't pre-judge him - he still has so much he can do before becoming King.
I adore seeing pictures of Fred & Mary with their 4 lovely children, give them all time and I'm sure Denmark will be rewarded with a confident and competant couple !!!
(I love them!!)

[Duke of Marmalade]

Originally Posted by American Dane

but I also think his speaking endears him to the Danish people maybe as its very human to not be perfect at everything. Is that right?

I think in general you are right, Frederik has been very popular with the Danes for being imperfect and struggling with some issues while excelling in others (sports, trip to the pole etc).

However, if there is the impression that he doesnt bother and simply goes ahead with being bad in an essential subject without trying hard to improve (and Danes are aware what Frederik is capable of when trying hard, see above) and making a fool of himself and the country when representing patience will certainly run out quickly.

Margerthe was much younger when becoming monarch but Frederik has had the time to be more than ready and the result with regard to his speaking in public is quite disappointing.

[American Dane]

Originally Posted by Duke of Marmalade

I think in general you are right, Frederik has been very popular with the Danes for being imperfect and struggling with some issues while excelling in others (sports, trip to the pole etc).

However, if there is the impression that he doesnt bother and simply goes ahead with being bad in an essential subject without trying hard to improve (and Danes are aware what Frederik is capable of when trying hard, see above) and making a fool of himself and the country when representing patience will certainly run out quickly.

Margerthe was much younger when becoming monarch but Frederik has had the time to be more than ready and the result with regard to his speaking in public is quite disappointing.

I completely agree.

[Viv]

I have defended the prospect of CP Frederik's kingship and and I am willing to do it again ! He comes accross as a emphatic person, and the fact that he has admitted to his reluctance - if not fright? -of his future role has endeared him to the Danes. He has fought hard to come to terms with his fate.
I'm afraid however that he will be further ridiculed by the republican minded media if he doesn't try to improve his public speaking.

Prince Joachim is very articulate in comparison! I'm old enough to remember that the Danes once wished that Joachim was the first born in stead of the very moody young Frederik! We don't wish to go there again for the monarchy's sake!

viv

[Nordic]

Originally Posted by Viv

Prince Joachim is very articulate in comparison! I'm old enough to remember that the Danes once wished that Joachim was the first born in stead of the very moody young Frederik! We don't wish to go there again for the monarchy's sake!

Well, Frederik is not a very moody young man anymore, and he is not stupid. I think he knows that he needs
to improve his public speaking skills, but it might be a slow process.

Joachim might be more articulate and smooth, but Frederik seems to have many other good qualities that,
IMO, will make him a good King. The most important is that he is very good with people. All sorts of people.
I have nothing against Joachim, but there is no question who I would choose if I had the choice.

[camelot23ca]

Regarding Frederik's public speaking skills - I wouldn't take the occasional poor performance, even a very poor performance, as evidence that he hasn't gotten help with this skill. I don't think it's like riding a bike, where once you've learned how to pedal, brake, etc. you'll be a good rider from here on out. I think taking the last couple of years in aggregate Frederik has, in fact, improved quite a bit with his speaking. If he had a setback in Russia, (I haven't had a chance to follow the trip), well, maybe he was especially tired, or was asked to change his remarks at the last moment or he was talking to Mary on the phone just before and something in their conversation stressed him out, etc. Things that wouldn't throw off someone who is naturally good at speaking can be major for someone who finds it difficult to start with.

[grevinnan]

He has had a lifetime to prepare for the job as the Danish king. Only time will tell if the danish people will be satisfied with a likeable but not very polished king.

[Duke of Marmalade]

I think Mary will play an imporant part. Like in Sweden, people are willing to put up with an imperfect or flawed but popular King (I am not including the latest controversy around CG in this assessment) if they see he is trying hard and the spouse makes somewhat up for it.

I think its a fact that Frederik will be subject to much more scrutiny and the knifes will be out for critizism in case he still isnt willing to accept what he has been groomed for since he was born.

[Lady Felicity M]

I think as time goes on he will make a great king and espcially with Mary at his side, what he did as a young playful man is in the past. I think he will step up to the plate and become a good danish king

[Nordic]

Originally Posted by Duke of Marmalade

I think Mary will play an imporant part. Like in Sweden, people are willing to put up with an imperfect or flawed but popular King (I am not including the latest controversy around CG in this assessment) if they see he is trying hard and the spouse makes somewhat up for it.

I think its a fact that Frederik will be subject to much more scrutiny and the knifes will be out for critizism in case he still isnt willing to accept what he has been groomed for since he was born.

Since nobody is perfect, I think there are lots of countries where people will have to accept an imperfect King or Queen.

The "not accepting his fate" phase was when he was young, wasn't it? About 20 years ago.
I think it has become quite clear a long time ago, that it's not how he feels anymore.

[Madame Royale]

Originally Posted by grevinnan

Only time will tell if the danish people will be satisfied with a likeable but not very polished king.

Frederik IX, comes to mind. A man and King unpolished, but was very much endeared to his people.

A family man who had an interest in sports, the arts and loved a good party. And a proud naval man to boot! Perhaps its something in the name

It's evident Frederik has a clear linguistic hesitance when infront of large crowds, and that's something one would hope he is being supported with.

It's always struck me how Frederik and Joachim's spoken english is so noticeably different. Frederik has what I'd consider to be a thick accent, while Joachim is so fluent when he talks english and as such, phrases his sentences quite well.

And as with the foreign born Ingrid, I believe the foreign born Mary will provide the polish that's required. Infact, the Crown Princess already does to a large extent.