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Correct me if I'm wrong, but the only time Catherine will use her name with a title is when she becomes queen. That's when she'll be known as Queen Catherine.
Exactly. But people will call her Queen Kate, or even Queen Kate Middleton.
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I am surprise at how big this whole 'Princess' thing has became and the attention it getting because William put Princess down as a occupation, It really doesn't and didn't bother me.
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Old 08-06-2013, 11:59 AM
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I am surprise at how big this whole 'Princess' thing has became and the attention it getting because William put Princess down as a occupation, It really doesn't and didn't bother me.
It just goes to show the intense level of interest there is globally surrounding William, Kate and little George. The recent tidbit about William playing polo and being in "baby mode" and diapers even made CNN news here.
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Old 08-06-2013, 12:38 PM
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After 3 days, Buckingham Palace has sent me a shamefully misleading statement claiming it has always known Kate was a princess.

May have been a misunderstanding in the press briefings or the media just got confused. Many of us already knew that Catherine is a Princess of the United Kingdom through marriage to a British born prince. I think the palace was just focused on the media getting her marriage title right, HRH The Duchess of Cambridge.
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Old 08-06-2013, 12:43 PM
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Exactly. But people will call her Queen Kate, or even Queen Kate Middleton.
Please no!
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Old 08-06-2013, 12:49 PM
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Please no!
You'll have to get used to Queen Camilla Parker Bowles first.
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Old 08-06-2013, 05:09 PM
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I am surprise at how big this whole 'Princess' thing has became and the attention it getting because William put Princess down as a occupation, It really doesn't and didn't bother me.

It didn't bother those of us who always knew she was a princess but there are many out there, on other fora for instance, who really dislike Kate and were determined to believe that she was being snubbed by not being a princess and when anyone tried to explain it to them they refused to take any notice.
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Old 08-06-2013, 05:46 PM
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Hi BrazilianEmpire,

I love your sense of humour:
Queen Kate Middleton and Queen Camilla Parker Bowles indeed!!!!

I fear & shudder to think that you are right; since the press and media are mostly made up of fools, who need a teleprompter or script and can't even get that correct....

The dumbing of America and Europe too now goes on & on & on ........

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Well, think of it this way, Queen Anne Boleyn and Queen Elizabeth Woodville are two famous examples of queen consorts who are best known by their maiden names, so Catherine wouldn't be the first to be known by hers if that would be the case. Eleanor of Aquitaine was always known by her moniker as well, despite marrying Henry I, aka Henry Plantagenet, of England.
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Prince Phillip is just Prince Phillip. He is seldom referred to as Prince Phillip Mountbatten. The last names will drop over time.
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Prince Phillip is just Prince Phillip. He is seldom referred to as Prince Phillip Mountbatten. The last names will drop over time.
Prince Philip's last name is kind of a special case though. As a royal he doesn't have a last name, he only adopted Mountbatten as a surname in the brief period of time between when he stopped using his Greek titles and when he was given British titles.

Women are frequently - although not always - remembered in history by their maiden names. Hence why Queens are frequently remembered after their death by their maiden names. Mary of Teck, Alexandra of Denmark, Anne Boleyn, Catherine of Aragon, etc.

It isn't a problem to remember them as such in history - it's a good way of distinguishing between them. There's a good number of Annes, Marys, Catherines, and so on who have been Queens, so in using maiden names for Consorts and numbering for Regnants it becomes easier to distinguish between them.

To refer to a living individual by her maiden name when she has indicated a desire to be known by her married name is a different thing altogether. Zara is both Zara Phillips and Zara Tindall, depending on what she's doing (professional vs. personal), so it isn't inaccurate for the press to call her by both. Catherine, however, is not Catherine, or Kate, Middleton outside of the court case in France, so it's not really accurate of the press to continue to call her such. It would be one thing if they alternated between Catherine and Kate, it's another when they toss in the Middleton.

That said I do think (or hope) that it's only a matter of time before they start getting it right. Camilla is usually referred to without the Parker Bowles, Sophie is usually referred to without the Rhys-Jones, etc.
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Old 08-06-2013, 07:04 PM
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Prince Philip's last name is kind of a special case though. As a royal he doesn't have a last name, he only adopted Mountbatten as a surname in the brief period of time between when he stopped using his Greek titles and when he was given British titles.

Women are frequently - although not always - remembered in history by their maiden names. Hence why Queens are frequently remembered after their death by their maiden names. Mary of Teck, Alexandra of Denmark, Anne Boleyn, Catherine of Aragon, etc.

It isn't a problem to remember them as such in history - it's a good way of distinguishing between them. There's a good number of Annes, Marys, Catherines, and so on who have been Queens, so in using maiden names for Consorts and numbering for Regnants it becomes easier to distinguish between them.

To refer to a living individual by her maiden name when she has indicated a desire to be known by her married name is a different thing altogether. Zara is both Zara Phillips and Zara Tindall, depending on what she's doing (professional vs. personal), so it isn't inaccurate for the press to call her by both. Catherine, however, is not Catherine, or Kate, Middleton outside of the court case in France, so it's not really accurate of the press to continue to call her such. It would be one thing if they alternated between Catherine and Kate, it's another when they toss in the Middleton.

That said I do think (or hope) that it's only a matter of time before they start getting it right. Camilla is usually referred to without the Parker Bowles, Sophie is usually referred to without the Rhys-Jones, etc.
Interesting - then why did he want the family name change to just Mountbatten (his name - famous quote about just being an amoeba - only man who can't give his name to his children) and then the change to Mountbatten-Windsor.?

EDIT: PS wrong thread I think but would appreciate answer, ty
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Speaking off the top of my head, Philip's Uncle Louis Mountbatten had proposed the surname at the time of one of the christenings. Queen Mary or the QM didn't want a royal house based solely on the Mountbatten name stemming from the variation of the original German Battenburg name and so pressured to have Windsor linked. The Queen conceded to the change and as a result Philip was extremely angry over that; hence his amoeba remark. He was angry for quite awhile with the Queen, I had read.
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So it is his surname - at least that's what I think.
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Old 08-06-2013, 07:42 PM
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Interesting - then why did he want the family name change to just Mountbatten (his name - famous quote about just being an amoeba - only man who can't give his name to his children) and then the change to Mountbatten-Windsor.?

EDIT: PS wrong thread I think but would appreciate answer, ty
I always find the amoeba comment rather ironic, given the origins of the name Mountbatten....

Mountbatten is the name that Philip's mother's English family adopted when they lost their German titles and adopted British names. The Battenbergs, headed by Philip's maternal grandfather Prince Louis of Battenberg, became the Mountbattens (with Prince Louis becoming the first Marquess of Milford Haven). This all happened after Philip's mother, Alice, married Andrew of Greece and Denmark, so she was never a Mountbatten.

When Philip became engaged to Princess Elizabeth he gave up his Greek titles (or stopped using them) and adopted an British surname, the name used by his mother's family. When Elizabeth became Queen it was debated that her children would belong to the House of Mountbatten, as per Philip's adopted surname, but it wasn't necessarily brought up by Philip himself.

It was, however, shot down by Queen Mary on the grounds that Philip didn't properly belong to the House of Mountbatten due to maternal descent, and Winston Churchill brought it up in Parliament where the government decided that the House would remain the House of Windsor. The amoeba comment can be seen as Philip's reaction to Parliament telling him that his children descendants wouldn't bear his name, a frustration with the situation (and the break from tradition; when Queen Victoria married her children didn't belong to her House). I always figured it was more of a comment made in anger as the result of an insult than a comment made to express his strong wish that his children be Mountbattens. That his children aren't "of Greece and Denmark" to me indicates that he doesn't necessarily feel the need for his children to bear titles and names he gives them.

The Mountbatten-Windsor happened in 1960 - after the death of Queen Mary and the retirement of Churchill. It doesn't apply to the House itself, just the surname of male-line, non-royal descendants, and I think it was just an attempt to show that at that point in time, post-Churchill, they were trying to find a bit of a middle ground.

It's significant (in my opinion) that the issue didn't come up while Elizabeth was pregnant with Charles or Anne (who were both styled "of Edinburgh" at birth), but did come up again after Andrew's birth. I wonder if some of the earlier position was taken because the idea of non-royal, male-line descendants was less likely with the first two children (more of Charles' descendants will be Royal than Andrew's, while none of Anne's will) than with the last two children.
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I knew there was a better explanation; thanks, Ish!
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Actually, the Louis Mountbatten bringing it up at a christening sounds pretty solid too. I'd read somewhere that part of the M-W had to do with him, but I couldn't remember what - likely he brought it up when Andrew was born and that (and the lack of a Queen Mary to oppose it) was what pushed the M-W into existence.
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To refer to a living individual by her maiden name when she has indicated a desire to be known by her married name is a different thing altogether. Zara is both Zara Phillips and Zara Tindall, depending on what she's doing (professional vs. personal), so it isn't inaccurate for the press to call her by both. Catherine, however, is not Catherine, or Kate, Middleton outside of the court case in France, so it's not really accurate of the press to continue to call her such. It would be one thing if they alternated between Catherine and Kate, it's another when they toss in the Middleton.
A name is merely a method of identifying a person and distinguishing them from others. As you say, Zara is both Zara Phillips and Zara Tindall. And Kate is Catherine Middleton for some purposes and Duchess of Cambridge for others. They are the same person no matter that they call themselves one name and others choose to call them by one of their alternatives.

Kate apparently elected to take on William's style and titles and surname when she married him, but for three decades she was Kate Middleton and she'll probably always be Kate Middleton to me, for that is a name that identifies her as an individual rather than merely as an extension of her husband. She may choose not to answer to that name, of course, and that's her prerogative.

I have never used my husband's surname and I won't answer to it and I set people straight if they refer to me that way and I change name tags if I'm given one which attributes his surname to me, but I bet there are people out there who refer to me as Roslyn (husband's surname), and nothing I do is going to stop them doing it and I am not going to lose sleep over it.

And what does it really matter? Kate will call herself the name by which she wants to be known, and others will call her what they want to call her, and as long as it's not an insulting name, what's the problem? There is a perfectly valid reason to identify her, informally - I'm not suggesting that one should address her as such in correspondence or if one met her in person - as Kate Middleton, just as there is a perfectly valid reason to identify Camilla as Camilla Parker Bowles.

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A name is merely a method of identifying a person and distinguishing them from others. As you say, Zara is both Zara Phillips and Zara Tindall. And Kate is Catherine Middleton for some purposes and Duchess of Cambridge for others. They are the same person no matter that they call themselves one name and others choose to call them by one of their alternatives.

Kate apparently elected to take on William's style and titles and surname when she married him, but for three decades he was Kate Middleton and she'll probably always be Kate Middleton to me, for that is a name that identifies her as an individual rather than merely as an extension of her husband. She may choose not to answer to that name, of course, and that's her prerogative.

I have never used my husband's surname and I won't answer to it and I set people straight if they refer to me that way and I change name tags if I'm given one which attributes his surname to me, but I bet there are people out there who refer to me as Roslyn (husband's surname), and nothing I do is going to stop them doing it and I am not going to lose sleep over it.

And what does it really matter? Kate will call herself the name by which she wants to be known, and others will call her what they want to call her, and as long as it's not an insulting name, what's the problem? There is a perfectly valid reason to identify her as her Kate Middleton, just as there is a perfectly valid reason to identify Camilla as Camilla Parker Bowles.

"'Tis but thy name that is my enemy;
Thou art thyself, though not a Montague.
What's Montague? it is nor hand, nor foot,
Nor arm, nor face, nor any other part
Belonging to a man. O, be some other name!
What's in a name? that which we call a rose
By any other name would smell as sweet."
Personally, I think it all amounts to respect.

You chose to be known by your maiden name and not your husband's surname. To insist on calling you by your husband's surname is to disrespect you.

However, if I chose to be known by my (not yet existing) husband's surname and not by my maiden name then it's disrespectful to insist on calling me by my maiden name.

The same applies to Catherine. She has indicated that she wants to go by the titles and styles she received upon marriage. To call her Kate Middleton is disrespectful because it is contrary to what she has indicated she is to be called.

It's the same thing with nicknames. If your name is Xy and you prefer to be called X, then it's not respectful to call you Xy. However, if you prefer to be called Xy, then it's not respectful to call you X or Y.
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