Cissan
Aristocracy
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- Jun 2, 2003
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Genevieve said:Felipe is not titled as the CP of Spain. He is the Prince of Asturias. He is not the Crown Prince of Spain.
Oh, excuse me. What a major mistake. I am deeply sorry.
That is fine for you if you would not feel comfortable marrying someone you had only know for only a year or so. But that doesn't mean that it isn't okay for Felipe and Letizia. So long as they are the two in the relationship and they are the ones who committed themselves before God, then only they can know how strong their relationship is and if marriage is/was a suitable decision for them.
Hav I said that it wasn't OK for Felipe and Letizia? I have only said that I considered their relationship as whirlwind and that I would NEVER choose to marry someone I've only known for a bit more than a year.
Furthermore, I think Felipe particularly would be more cautious in his choice of bride. As the future King of Spain, he knew very well the responsibilities and the heavy burden of choosing a suitable wife, not only for himself but for his country. He seems to be an intelligent individual; he would not have proposed to any woman without considering all the ramifications and consequences, or if he did not feel that he truly loved Letizia or that Letizia loved him.
In my experience, your judgment can be somewhat clouded in the beginning of a relationship. Lord knows that I have made som bad choices...
Statistics say that couples who live together before marriage do not necessarily have a better chance of making their marriage last. So whether Felipe and Letizia lived together before their wedding would be a null factor.
Could you show that statistics please?
That is like comparing apples and oranges. The length of Felipe and Letizia's relationship was typical of most royal courtships. That Letizia is an untypical choice of bride has nothing to do with the length of their relationship. If you want to discuss the "typicalness" of choices of brides, then many of the present Crown Princesses would be untypical choices too: Maxima (non-royal, father with scandalous past); Mette-Marit (non-royal, no university degree, single mother, self-admitted partyer); Mary (non-royal, lived with a man during a previous relationship).
Do you believe that the historical royal marriages when the bride and groom barely knew eachother were happy?