muhler, thanks for your very interesting posts re frederik's attitude, depression and newly found stability in mary.
if i'm not mistaken, you said that once you thought that joachim would have been the better heir then changed your mind, like many other danes, given that f is the nost loved one of the two brothers by the public right now.
well, i have to say that frederik must have done an amazing job in growing up, becoming more secure, accepting his role etc and also showing his insecurities and being accepted and loved his insecurities notwithstanding.
perhaps it is the first time that a royal, and a future king nonetheless, opens up so much about his personal issues, and i reckon it paid off, both for frederik, who doesn't have to pretend to be different from what he really is, and for Danish people, who should get the feeling to know frederik and his inner battles well
I think so too, being honest about your issues is often helpful.
The thing that really changed my view on Frederik's suitability as a king can be summarized into one word: Mary.
He was open about his problems accepting his destiny. That is something I respect.
The navy special forces and the trek in Greenland are individually very impressive accomplishments, but in themselves they may not necessarily make him more suitable as a king.
He lost perhaps his closest confidente, Queen Ingrid, in 2000 while he at the same time met Mary.
Mary was different in the sense that she was the first sweetheart he actually moved in with, albeit unofficially.
It's my impression that Frederik felt very insecure, was afraid and basically lost, when he tried to look into the future. But first and foremost I believe he was lonely. - Something QMII has hinted.
Now he had someone he felt he could securely face the future with.
Someone he could share the burden of being a royal with on a day to day basis.
Getting married and setteling down in earnest is a big change in everyones lives.
Having children, good grief, also changes things. A lot! And it matures you.
On top of that he has passed 40, and whether you are willing to admit it or not, something happens to you around that age.
I think Frederik now looks at the future as a challenge, rather than as something scary.
Don't get me wrong, Mary is no superhuman. Most of her accomplishments, I believe, come from hard work.
I'm certain she has found her anchor in Frederik as well. I find it most telling when they are on the job together. Mary is much more relaxed then, and sometimes almost girlish. That's why they complement each other so well on official travels.
I'm I no doubt whatsoever that Mary sometimes, perhaps often, is very nervous. With Frederik around she has a huge moral support, just by his presence.
I have a great confidence in Mary's abilities. Should QMII say tomorrow: "Mary, I'll take the rest of the family for a trek down the Amazonas and you are going to be Regent until we return. Oh, and the PM will probably call a general election within the next few weeks. You'll deal with that as well, okay? See you in a couple of months or so".
I wouldn't be nervous for her. Eventhough she would have to, on her own, to accept the resignation of the government and Parliament. Meet the various chairmen of the parties and listen to whom they point to as the next PM after the election and formally appoint the new government.
It's the Frederik and Mary team that is crucial for my perception of Frederik's suitability as king. An impression I don't have on my own and which can boiled down to: Frederik on his own? Yeah okay, he'll probably be a fine king. Mary and Frederik? They
will be fine regent couple.
That doesn't mean I've dismissed Joachim. Oh no. Joachim is still way superiour to Frederik when it comes to formal representation, accompanying business and diplomatic delegations, giving formal speeches. - The more stiff but still essential part of being a royal.
I genuinely think that we Danes are, pardon me, damned fortunate in having both M&F and J&M, individually the four of them appeal in particular to different segments of the population while at the same time not being so different that the segments don't very much overlap.
They have different ways of approaching their jobs and that's a strength.
Hmm, a long post as usual.
Well, if you made it this far, you'll probably get my meaning.