royaltywatcher said:
I agree that Princess Alexandra looks tense in these outings. I can think of a few likely reasons: 1) Her status is lower than that of her in-laws now, and that is kind of awkward. 2) She is sort of an extra person. Where does she fit in in the family? 3) It must be hard to be around her former husband, they pose together, but as what? Friends, parents, out of duty, for the sake of appearances? She really breezed past the receiving line in the video. Why?
Her status isn't that much lower, she is "HH" and her former in-laws are "HRH", she is a countess in her own right, so it isn't like she doesn't have a title at all.
She is an extra person, but not in the way. She has an active and included role in the RF, she isn't like a third wheel.
And, I think that it would be difficult for her to keep company with her ex-husband, but they have to be in public together, and in private because of their children.
They aren't immature people, and both of them have a strong sense of duty, they would put their country ahead of their divorce.
As for the receiving line, I think she skipped that because she isn't married to Prince Joachim anymore, the concert was for Queen Ingrid, so, while it was a public occassion, it was also for family. Alexandra isn't married into the family anymore, so she probably attended as a member of the house. You may say that Mary isn't the Queen's blood either (and maybe it would be logical to leave her out too), she is currently married to Frederik, while you can't say the same for Joachim and Alexandra.
The most logical reason for the lack of a reception is that her former in-laws are either Queen, Prince Consort, Prince or Princess with a HRH title, while she is only HH compared to them. Maybe at these things the respect doesn't apply so much to her now.