tan berry, if you want to respond to a private message, just hit the Reply button at the bottom of the message.
If you want to see the list of forum moderators and admins, just go to the main forum page
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Alternatively, there's a sticky in this forum which gives a link to the list of moderators and admins
http://www.theroyalforums.com/forums/f19/royal-forums-moderation-admin-team-12105.html
You can see the list of moderators of each forum at the bottom right of the main page for that forum; the list of Monaco moderators is on this page at the bottom right:
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If you're concerned about some of the posts that are still in that thread, please let one of the Monaco moderators know by PM which posts you mean, and they'll have another look. In the meantime, I've deleted the name of the poster that you mentioned in connection with the racist and prejudiced post, but I'll let the Monaco moderators know by PM and they can look out for the post.
To get back to your original point - since depression is a medical condition, and since we've been quite strict about not letting people claim that various royals look as though they have anorexia or AIDS or bipolar disease or any other medical condition, the same standard was applied to your post. This may simply be a function of your not being a native English speaker and not understanding that you were talking about an actual illness. If you were trying to say that you thought Andrea's eyes looked sad or haunted or something, rather than that they gave the impression that he was suffering from a clinical condition, I'm sure the moderators will be happy to edit your post and restore it.