I read that Sarah was in Thailand during the wedding to finish her OWN series and with her was Jane. Now, late winter, when it was brought up as to whether Sarah would be invited, Sarah's spokeswoman stated that Sarah didn't expect to be invited and would be out of the country at the time of the wedding anyway as she had business. Then, after the wedding she speaks about her flying to Thailand alone and either watching the wedding or having a friend call/text her about it and being devastated at not being invited. Now it emerges she was in Thailand wrapping up her series not only with her sister, but with the crew of Oprah's network. So Sarah wasn't all alone because she wanted to avoid the wedding she wasn't invited to and deal with her disappointment.
This is what happens with persons who feel the need to lie all the time, they have to keep inventing continual explanations/scenarios and many times forget what they told to whom in the long run...............
Thank you so much Katrianna; this is exactly how I had thought I remembered things. Here in the UK I am always careful about what I read in the papers - broadsheets are generally better than tabloids, but this is not a firm rule, only a guideline, and I tend to prefer primary sources anyway.
According to what I remembered, the whole issue of whether Sarah would been invited to the wedding was raised shortly after the engagement announcement, and as Katrianna says, the word was that the question of an invitation was actually irrelevant because Sarah 'was going to be abroad on business'. The issue then raised itself again shortly before the wedding (i.e. when the invitations had been sent out and the British began the 'who's going?' game; whereupon Sarah began what a journalist on 'The Times' called '[Sarah's] bleatings....' about the fact that she had not been invited and that she
so wished to go etc....
Quite apart from the actual morality about lying, in my very humble opinion this 'turn' in the story could actually have an enormous impact on Sarah's credibility [or what little remains of this] particularly coming out at right now, when Sarah is coming under severe pressure as to the truth or otherwise of her allegations of parental neglect/abuse. Judging by what fellow forum members have said above, it appears that even Sarah' sister Jane is hinting that Sarah's recollections might have been .....imperfect. I very much respect fellow forum members' input on parental abuse and indeed that input from those members who suffered very much in their own childhoods [and my best wishes to you all; I applaud your courage in speaking out and I fervently hope that you can take comfort and move forward to great things]. Just suppose that Sarah is indeed being less than truthful - surely this will have an enormous impact on whether she is regarded as believable any more, and if the American and Canadian public feel that Sarah is 'taking them for a ride', will they still be willing to watch her on tv, turn up to her lectures and appearances and buy her books etc? This will surely be devastating to her current career, such as it is.
There's one thing that I want to make I
very clear: I don't 'hate Sarah' at all and neither do I wish to be seen as a 'Sarah basher'; however from the way things seem to be moving at the moment, I would say that Sarah is making it
very difficult for even her friends, allies and staunch supporters.
Only my opinions, and as usual, I don't wish to offend.
Alex