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Old 01-21-2013, 09:12 PM
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Unfortunately that is not just possible for him. And anyone who believes he can do this is very naive.
Oh yes he can. I don't see Harry totally abandoning his brother, so he could very well do just the minimum for a royal and still live - in the words of another poster - "the life of an ordinary, but extremely wealthy, army officer".
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Old 01-21-2013, 09:45 PM
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Oh, yes, I can well and truly understand his situation and his feelings. I would absolutely hate to be in his situation, living in a goldfish bowl. He has lived in one all his life though, and should have come to terms with its limitations by now. He has no private life. Everything he does is likely to be reported by the press or social media. The press is never going to let him alone. He should accept that fact gracefully, or have the courage of his convictions and bail out and become simply Mr Harry Wales. The media would still not leave him alone, of course, but he would then have the right to tell them to naff off.

It's the way he handles his situation that is important to me. I'm not going to sit here saying, "Poor Harry" if he's being curt with the media and making his displeasure with his lot in life quite clear. It would be very different if he were gracious about it, but it seems he's not.
It's not like his time in Afghanistan is peaches and roses. Maybe that's the reason he was curt to reporters?
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Old 01-21-2013, 09:46 PM
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Oh yes he can. I don't see Harry totally abandoning his brother, so he could very well do just the minimum for a royal and still live - in the words of another poster - "the life of an ordinary, but extremely wealthy, army officer".
Really?? With this family's history with people who quit their jobs? C'mon.
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Old 01-21-2013, 09:59 PM
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Really?? With this family's history with people who quit their jobs? C'mon.
To me that just means there's a precedent!
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Old 01-21-2013, 10:21 PM
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People Prince Harry just came back from a war zone. I like his honesty.
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Old 01-21-2013, 10:28 PM
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I searched on the web to find what I could of the interviews and I didn't perceive him to be whining. He seemed very much Harry, to me. Direct, calling it as he sees it. Reminds me a bit of his Aunt Anne, or his grandfather Prince Phillip, sort of I am what I am, take it or leave it. Frankly the press needs him a lot more than he needs or wants them, IMO. He's charismatic, attractive and as he says, he works hard and plays hard. Not sure what people expected of him, the reporters asked questions, he answered.
Did love the bit where he got to run away mid interview to fly a mission - bet he did too.
I wonder if a single one of those reporters ever served in combat.
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Old 01-21-2013, 11:42 PM
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I've never served in the military and certainly have never been in a war zone but those that I know that have, have always told me that you become trained to always be in a stage of acute awareness of what's around you even while you are sleeping. I would think that after serving 5 months in Afghanistan and flying serious missions and even seeing his camp attacked, Harry had quite a radar of awareness about him and probably realized how silly and inane those interviews about him were in relation to his job at hand. I would really hope that after these interviews, the press will leave Harry alone to decompress. There is a good reason why he's in Cyprus for a bit to do this. So many of our service people come back from a war zone with PTSD and the last thing Harry needs right now is the press putting even more stress on him.

I haven't seen the interviews yet nor read through all the articles so what I am writing is based on what I've picked up here so far. Looking back just over the past year, there have been several incidents with Harry, William, Kate and the press where its been quite clear that the press had overstepped the line of decency. Are we really surprised that they are not fond of nor singing the praises of the press? They are well aware that they do need a good working relationship with the press but they've also seen the lack of respect the press has shown in the past and the damage it has done. I do think that in the future if these brothers team up, they will make a formidable opponent against the press when they cross the line and will take steps to insure the press is kept in line when it comes to them being on their own private times. We've already seen some of this recently from William.

No matter what, Harry is and will always be who he is and unless he changes his name, has reconstructive surgery and goes into something similar to the witness protection programs, there will be press interest in him as well as the public interest. There just has to be a line drawn that the press cannot step over and I think both William and Harry are going to be the two that will define this line clearly in the future.
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Old 01-21-2013, 11:52 PM
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I like how open Harry was in the interviews and he really put things into perspective, IMO. He and his family deal with a lot when it comes down to the press.
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It's not like his time in Afghanistan is peaches and roses. Maybe that's the reason he was curt to reporters?
That is certainly an option. He has likely seen things and done things that he never wanted. That leaves scars.
Doing an interview like this, would seem so meaningless compared to it.
I, for one, am very glad that he got out in one piece.
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Old 01-22-2013, 02:56 AM
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Just watched the interview with Harry in Afghanistan - a rare insight into life at Camp Bastion and the conditions in which our men and women in the armed forces work and live out there.
Harry obviously loves his job - particularly his helicopter! - and is very proud to be able to work alongside his colleagues. He was very modest about his royal position and very protective about his colleagues saying that THEY were the important ones there. He simply does his job like any of the other guys and when it's time to do royal duties, he switches the button and carries out that role too as and when required.
I sincerely hope that he will be able to continue his career in the army for as long as he wants to, without people presuming that they can expect him to give up his career and entertain them in his royal capacity.
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Old 01-22-2013, 08:27 AM
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Have just joined so I can say...I agree with you Roslyn! All royals have the option to bow out of royal life (and give away their titles and line to the throne) if they choose. I understand he will continue to be a celebrity for some time because of his family and past, but as Roslyn states, he would then be in a better position to tell them where to go!
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Old 01-22-2013, 09:28 AM
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I don't really think any of the better-known Royals can bow out of royal life, but while there are obviously reasons for rudeness, there's never an excuse for it. Other Royals would be torn apart if they were rude to the media. Harry should be no exception. He's 28 years old, he's been raised properly, he has manners when he wants to have them. That said, I watched the interviews and didn't find him all that rude, other than the fact he spoke extremely fast, and he took a couple of digs at the media.
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Old 01-22-2013, 09:43 AM
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Taliban leaders label Prince Harry a 'coward' for comparing Afghan conflict with computer games | Mail Online

NATO is not happy about Harry's interview about taking people out and having useful thumbs from his Xbox practice.

In my opinion, he should have kept his mouth shut in that respect because it shows that Harry is lacking judgement and maturity big time.
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Old 01-22-2013, 10:13 AM
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Oh good grief! I think causing an international incident was the last thing on Harry's mind when he joked about the games. The people serving in our armed forces are not there to party, its serious business and they have to be on the alert at all times. From people I know in the service, computer laptops and game systems are what most of them use to relax should it be playing video games, watching movies or chatting with the folks back home when they can is a real lifeline.

I'd be willing to wager that the time he spent on FIFA was spent to relax with his buddies and take his mind off of more serious things. Harry's always been a big fan of soccer/football. I'm just glad he did have something pleasurable while he was over there.

This story is really making a mountain out of sand of grain.
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Old 01-22-2013, 10:13 AM
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While I do think the comment was a bit odd I don't think the Taliban are the right people to call someone else a coward.
When I read the remark I thought it sounded really dismisive. Like he doesn't want people to think what he did/does is that special. On the other hand... isn't this what war is about? The killing of the enemy.. I bet there are plenty of soldiers (past and present) who would say just about the same thing.
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Old 01-22-2013, 10:42 AM
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I'm beginning to understand Harry's resentment of the media. He has to do these interviews so they won't report on him in a way that puts his unit in danger, and then when he does finally sit down with the press to give them what they want, his words are picked apart and used to criticize him.

He's in a no win situation.
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Old 01-22-2013, 10:44 AM
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I feel for him, but I don't know if there is anything that can be done. He is not the first, or the only royal that has had to deal with a very intrusive (and sometimes nasty) media. I'm sure the other members of the BRF, are equally unhappy with having their lives dissected and picked apart. Maybe he should sit down with his grandmother and father and ask them how they have handled the unwanted scrutiny.

I doubt that will help; his grandmother and even his father did not have the same unrelenting scrutiny there is now.
Thanks to modern technology, Harry is never alone, and he has to accept that.

There's no point complaining, because nothing is apt to change as long as the Windsors are on the throne.
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Old 01-22-2013, 11:04 AM
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Harry will be dogged by constant media interest both positive and negative until he puts a ring on a girl's finger, then the emphasis will shift to the poor unfortunate woman.
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Old 01-22-2013, 11:10 AM
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Welcome Home Captain Wales!!!
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Old 01-22-2013, 11:11 AM
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Royal wee: Prince Harry reveals Apache toilet break secrets:
Video: Royal wee: Prince Harry reveals Apache toilet break secrets - Telegraph

Interesting to know.
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