Well, yes, and in an earlier time (not so long ago) Richard's brother, William of Gloucester, (see the documentary I linked earlier) felt even more pressure and there was clearly no chance that he would ever inherit the throne.
And here I go with another book @Osipi
, so pardon me for elaborating on a few other points of discussion before I sign off for the day.
As I mentioned, none of us are going to agree on every point, nor have the same perceptions. I often think it's a good idea to examine my own attitudes and motivations which can help in my understanding of why I think the way I do. I say that because what we are all doing is projecting our own feelings onto incidents, faulty press reports, snippets of quotes and topics that we digest and regurgitate without always having accurate confirmation or reliable primary sources. I have read a lot of books about the royal family and watched a lot of documentaries and interviews with royals and conversed with other royal followers, but that's the extent of my knowledge, obviously combined with my own experiences of living in the world. Bottom line, we don't know what we don't know, so for the most part we are guessing based on what we do know, or think we know. In addition, some followers here appear to be bringing some very strong opinions about the way they feel royals are 'supposed to act.' And that is the stance/ attitude which I disagree with.
None of us know what the other royals feel about Prince Harry's recent interviews. They are likely aware of Harry's feelings and many of them likely share with him at least the sense of being too often hounded by the press. Back in the day, Princess Anne curtailed her equestrian career because of OTT press attention during her competitive events, which bothered her horses and caused undue distractions for her fellow competitors. I saw this expressed in a documentary I recently viewed about Princess Anne. Remember the tempest in a teapot made over video of Prince William Dad-dancing at a ski resort in Verbier. There was really nothing to that but OTT mother hen reactions, pearl-clutching, and silly raising of eyebrows. William was attempting to have some down time with friends and obviously someone decided to take video simply because of who he is. It blew over fairly quickly, and William even made humorous reference to his lack of dancing skills later during a charity promo visit to Radio One.
I'll bet that Queen Elizabeth by force of will learned how to hide her true feelings behind the warmth of her regal smile. She was raised during a different time and her personality is very calm, reserved, and dutiful, so she learned to adapt to the role she was raised and groomed to inherit. As a young queen, she probably often felt the need to defer to ancient male counselors and prime ministers not just on matters of state, but on personal matters involving her own family. She persevered because she was raised to do her duty, but I'm quite certain it has never been easy for her. It's the strength of her character and the vow she made to her country so many years ago as an eager, bright-eyed young Princess with the world in front of her:
"I declare that my life whether it be long or short, shall be devoted to your service..."
And as Harry said, it was
his devotion, admiration and respect for his grandmother, the Queen, which ultimately led to him finding a way to carve out something meaningful he could do to help support and serve her. But again, I would suspect there are private conversations the Queen has had with her grandsons of which we will never know anything about. I get the impression that she leads by example and offers nuggets of wisdom, but that she does not demand, push or force any of her family members.
Harry's quoted reference to modernizing the monarchy could mean any number of things regarding palace operations, household staff, royal courtiers, royal traditions, general extended family-related concerns, the royal purse, etc., which have probably been discussed privately among the Queen, Prince Charles, Prince Philip, Prince William and Prince Harry. Actually, Harry specifically mentioned changes focused on utilizing technology and social media to update ways the royal family communicates with the public. And, there have already been many indications that Prince Charles has plans to streamline 'the firm' when he inherits the throne. None of this is exactly a secret being kept from the Queen. She surely already knows and expects that many things will change once her reign ends. Leading a royal existence is nothing if not scheduled and planned years in advance. The Queen may not be actively involved in the details of planned changes, but she's surely aware of and perhaps in agreement with some of the proposed changes, or at least with the overall strategy and need for change. With her years of experience, I'm sure the Queen also knows that while it pays to be prepared, there's no way to gauge the outcome of every future development.