Earl and Countess of Wessex and Family Current Events 6: July 2011-January 2013


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It is up to the Brittish royal family to set the rules on what gifts their members can receive. I wonder if so many royals would spend time in the arab countries if the gifts were less opulent. The US president and perhaps also other countries ruler does not received such expensive gifts no matter how important the relationships between the countries are. Royal families should revise their acceptance policy. Relationships between hosts and guests are a two-way street.
 
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It is impossible for us to determine what gift US Presidents and their spouses or any other President get because it is not widely publicised.
It is fair to say that Countess of Wessex could not refuse the gift. The refusal to take a present or presents could have been viewed as a disrespect and/or a political stance on the current situation in Bahrain.
 
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It is impossible for us to determine what gift US Presidents and their spouses or any other President get because it is not widely publicised.
It is fair to say that Countess of Wessex could not refuse the gift. The refusal to take a present or presents could have been viewed as a disrespect and/or a political stance on the current situation in Bahrain.

In the U.S. Presidents are not even allowed to accept gifts worth over a certain value without approval of Congress. That safeguards them from this type of faux pas.
 
All the affair is very strange. Britain is dependent on the friendship and goodwill of those oil rich despots, hence its close links with them and the many royal tours the BRF are send to do in the ME.

Now one could criticize this direction of the British foreign policy but it's very bizarre and hypocritical to criticize a very small and insignificant detail in it.
 
US Presidents can accept gifts over a certain amount of money, but they cannot keep them for their own personal use. They are put in storage somewhere. They are often found later in displays in Presidential Libraries. There was some talk at one time of establishing a kind of "foundation" of jewels from these gifts for the use of the First Lady. I don't think anything was ever done about that. I know the Nixon ladies received jewelry from I believe Saudi Arabia, and they occasionally wore it, but whether they actually kept it or not we don't know. Once a year, I believe, a list is published of gifts received by the President and/or his family. They do occasionally give gifts of serious monetary value, but are barred from accepting for personal use any in return.
 
OK, the visit was arranged by the Foreign Office. The Foreign Office is well aware, or should be, of the type of gifts Arab rulers given to visiting members of the BRF so none of this should come as a surprise. If they saw the potential of receiving gifts as a problem they should quietly have advised the Bahranis that the couple would not be allowed to accept any gifts.
Sophie only has the right to use the jewels during her life and then they go into the Royal Collection which is essentially a national trust.
To refuse the gift would have been insulting to a nation that regardless of their internal problems is a friend and ally of the UK. There are problems in the gulf with Iran, so the UK needs to keep the friends it has.
This issue being drummed up by the DM is a storm in a tea cup.
 
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It is always nice to read a sensible view on the situation. All this hysterical overreaction is nonsensical. I can't help, but wonder who leaked the information to the mass media outlets and why it was done.
 
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OK, the visit was arranged by the Foreign Office. The Foreign Office is well aware, or should be, of the type of gifts Arab rulers given to visiting members of the BRF so none of this should come as a surprise. If they saw the potential of receiving gifts as a problem they should quietly have advised the Bahranis that the couple would not be allowed to accept any gifts.
Sophie only has the right to use the jewels during her life and then they go into the Royal Collection which is essentially a national trust.
To refuse the gift would have been insulting to a nation that regardless of their internal problems is a friend and ally of the UK. There are problems in the gulf with Iran, so the UK needs to keep the friends it has.
This issue being drummed up by the DM is a storm in a tea cup.

It's apparently a former foreign office official who is stating that Sophie should auction the jewels and give the money to charities in Bahrain. I've read the same story in other papers, so it's not just the DM reporting.

Countess of Wessex 'should return bloodstained' gems to Bahrain | UK news | guardian.co.uk

Countess of Wessex 'should return bloodstained' gems to Bahrain.
Labour MP Denis MacShane and activist Peter Tatchell call on Sophie to return jewels after crackdown on democracy protests.

"Given the appalling suffering and repression of the Bahraini people, it would be a fitting gesture for the Countess of Wessex to auction these trinkets and distribute the proceeds to the victims of the regime,"

Countess of Wessex criticised for accepting jewels from Bahrain - Telegraph

 
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Didn't Camilla get jewels from Bahrain as well?

She probably has but i think the very large rugby necklace was from Saudi Arabia. I think the press are making a bigger deal out of it due to the recent events in the middle east.
As has been said before in my opinion Sophie had no choice but to accept the gifts when presented to her. I think Sophie could rightly assume if the Foreign Office (who arrange or at least have part in all such visits) didn't want her to accept the gifts the FO could have found some way to prevent them being presented to her. As far as Sophie was probably concerned she thought it must have been approved by the powers that be. At least as far as we can tell Sophie hasn't worn the jewels (i think the press would have found such pics by now if they could).
 
I think that the real problem with gifts when it comes to the British Royal Family is that the Queen is head of state but is not a politician.

Presidents are almost always politicians or at least policital to some extent even if they have not had careers as professional politicians. They are also usually [or certainly so far as the Western World is concerned] not President for their lifetime. It is therefore I suppose far easier for such heads of state to turn down 'inappropriate gifts' with a straightforward 'we can't accept personal gifts', which gets round the problem without giving offence [i.e. they don't have to get into a 'difficult area', just repeating the 'blanket ban'.

The Queen's position as lifetime unelected non-polical head of state has caused difficulties both with the giving and receipt of gifts over the years.

As well as receiving gifts from 'inappropriate donors' over the years, the Queen - although she acts on the advice of politicians - has found herself being criticised when honours in her name have been awarded to - I don't know how to phrase this exactly - 'inappropriate' heads of state.

From memory, Nicolae Ceauşescu and Robert Mugabe both received honorary Orders of the Bath from the Queen. Both dictators ultimately had to be stripped of these honours. Although the Order of the Bath is awarded on the advice of the government, in practice it in the Queen who ends up tainted [for want of a better word] when things go sour.

As to personal gifts to the Royal Family, there was huge controversy a few years ago when Prince Charles' then-valet Michael Fawcett was asked by the Prince to sell [secretly] surplus (!) but valuable unwanted (!) gifts from foreign donors. This led to huge controversy when the sales were discovered. Some were treasures from Middle Eastern Crowned Heads or their families.

There is also the fact to contend with, as NGaltizine so rightly says, that refusing gifts causes offence, particularly where the donors come from traditions where 'priceless' gift-giving is closely bound up with custom and practice.

I suppose that it would have been totally impractical for the jewels to be returned [political outcry in Bahrain etc at a time when one does not want to upset anything in the Middle east] and so I suppose that all Sophie can really do is not wear the jewellery. Which I suppose is a pity in one sense, because like royal jewel-watchers here, I do love looking at beautiful things even though this is an area of royal information that I know nothing about.

IMHO, the issue this time is wider than just 'bashing by the Daily Mail' - there are numerous British Policiticans who can use this sort of 'gifting' to cause 'trouble', thincluding those politicians hostile to both the BRF or the Coalition government.

Difficult situation.......

Alex
 
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Well it does give some MP's and former officials,most of whom the public have never heard of and likely never will again, the chance to get their names in the papers.
 
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It is fair to say that Countess of Wessex could not refuse the gift. The refusal to take a present or presents could have been viewed as a disrespect and/or a political stance on the current situation in Bahrain.[/I]

I agree; the couple was placed in a very delicate position and I think reaction is being unfairly misdirected at the Wessexes. If the Foreign Office works closely with the royals during their visits to foreign countries, it is this institution that had to have advised the couple what to do in this prickly situation. To have refused the gifts outright could have led to a diplomatic/political blunder that royals cannot become involved in. Sophie can only bury these items in the royal vaults for now and perhaps wear them sometime in the future and might even have them remodified from the original settings. I'm sure the royal vaults are full of questionable gifts given over time to past monarchs, and most likely this won't be the last.
 
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Well it does give some MP's and former officials,most of whom the public have never heard of and likely never will again, the chance to get their names in the papers.
Ah, acid cynicism. How apropos this particular "storm in a teacup". The Government and in particular, the Foreign Minister, having been fully briefed by the Foreign Office, are well aware of the shape of such visits and the Queen did not send her son and duaghter-in-law on a private freebee. They were sent at the behest of the Goverment, probably to try to smooth over the embarassment caused by the withdrawal of the wedding invitation due to "human right's issues".

Former Foreign Office Minister Denis MacShane said . . . . .
Would that be the squeaky clean and politically manipulative Labour MP who, totally aware of the way things are in the Foreign Office, is once again trying to gain some free political traction at the expense of honesty.
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After the 2001 general election, he was made a junior minister at the Foreign Office with responsibility for the Balkans and Latin Ameririca. He caused some embarrassment to the government in 2002 by describing President Hugu Chavez of Venezuela as a 'ranting, populist demagogue' and compared him to Benito Mussolini during a failed military coup attempt to depose the democratically elected presiden. Afterwards, he had to make clear that, as minister with responsibility for Latin America, the government deplored the coup attempt.
Hmmm. Caning the Wessexes for accepting "inappropriate" gifts from a "Repressive" Government they were sent to visit on behalf of the British Government and yet he (personally) supported the attempted overthrow of a democratically elected government.

How very morally flexible of him. I suppose the free PR is just an added bonus? Raise his public and (more importantly) political profile. Check! Dump on the Monarchy in HM Diamond Jubillee Year to muddy the waters of his apparent flip flop. Check! Check!

Taking the Moral High Road. Yeah Right!
 
OK, the visit was arranged by the Foreign Office. The Foreign Office is well aware, or should be, of the type of gifts Arab rulers given to visiting members of the BRF so none of this should come as a surprise. If they saw the potential of receiving gifts as a problem they should quietly have advised the Bahranis that the couple would not be allowed to accept any gifts.
Sophie only has the right to use the jewels during her life and then they go into the Royal Collection which is essentially a national trust.
To refuse the gift would have been insulting to a nation that regardless of their internal problems is a friend and ally of the UK. There are problems in the gulf with Iran, so the UK needs to keep the friends it has.
This issue being drummed up by the DM is a storm in a tea cup.

I fully agree with you. If the Bahraini's are considered "kosher" enough to get a royal visit, then accepting a gift on behalf of the UK is absolutely fine, IMO. The decision to visit Bahrain or not by a member of the BRF is one that is taken by the UK government, and not the BRF themselves.
 
Look honestly these critics are petty and a pain as far as I am concerned. I really think these people who create a storm in teacup are pills ... imagine if she had refused and caused problems there if the protocol is give then she is in a no win situation and I think she should keep them.
I am soooo tired of petty lower class politicans and newspaper folk making these problems out of nothing ... I wish they would go away.IMO
 
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It is impossible for us to determine what gift US Presidents and their spouses or any other President get because it is not widely publicised.

Actually it is very easy. Gifts are recorded and turned over to the State department. Anyone can review the records.
 
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One would assume that the Wessex's staff and Foreign office staff would be more astute as to problems when visiting foreign countries. Exchange of gifts between heads of states are one issue but for a royal so far removed from the throne to accept suites of jewelry during a short stop-over visit is perhaps not so easily justified.
 
Actually it is very easy. Gifts are recorded and turned over to the State department. Anyone can review the records.
The State Department records or records of any other Foreign office/ministry are as accurate as the parties concerned want them to be.
 
Part of the problem when the RF receive or are offered gifts is that Royals tend to be around longer than Presidents/Prime Ministers/ Foreign Ministers so this means they have to look to the long term future. A president who may only be around for the next 2 years say can afford to refuse a gift as its fair to assume within 2 years relations with the country giving the gift won't have changed drastically however a Royal who may be around for a lifetime may well wish to refuse a gift from certain countries now but find that those countries are close allies again in a decade from now. If you look at Europe's relationships with middle-eastern countries over the past few decades you'll see how much they can change, refusing a gift now might turn out to be a big mistake/regret in the future.
Whilst I might personally have preferred Sophie not to accept the jewels I think really she had no choice, so the next best thing is to accept them, hide them away for sometime and make sure they go to the state collection.
 
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Which I also mentioned briefly in my post #280

Incidentally, the English newspapers [the 'better quality' ones certainly] mentioned that Edward was given the present of a silk rug at the same time. This seems to have 'slipped under the radar' to the extent that the politicians asking the Countess to return the jewels she was given have not made the same request in relation to her husband. [I am guessing that although the jewels would apparently have been more valuable, it is not beyond the reals of possibility that the rug was of significant value as well...]

It's really a 'no win situation'. If Sophie and Edward hadn't stopped off at Barhrain, then the 'gift problem' would not have arisen, but, as NGalitzine has mentioned, the West needs to make and keep as many friends as it can in the Middle East in view of the general volatility of the political situation.

As I said before, it's a difficult situation,

Alex
 
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I'm shure - it's not Sophy's or any other Royal choice to accept or worse to REJECT a gift. .. Thats a decision of the foreign office.
 
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On January 12, Sophie has attended the author Heather McGregor's "Mrs Moneypenny's Careers
Advice for Ambitious Women" book launch party at Home House Portman Square in London.

Bad pictures, but better than nothing :)


** Pic 1 ** Pic 2 ** Pic 3 ** gallery **
 
Thanks for the images. It's such a bummer we can't see the images without the ISOPIX logos. Sophie, however, looks lovely and I love the updo. :) Nice to see Sarah Brown, Gordon Brown's wife. Apparently she and Sophie are good friends, and Lady Louise and Sarah's older son are friends.
 
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Thanks for the images. It's such a bummer we can't see the images without the ISOPIX logos. Sophie, however, looks lovely and I love the updo. :) Nice to see Sarah Brown, Gordon Brown's wife. Apparently she and Sophie are good friends, and Lady Louise and Sarah's older son are friends.

Wonder if the children go to the same school, or know each other from their mothers being friends. As always, Sophie looks lovely.
 
The State Department records or records of any other Foreign office/ministry are as accurate as the parties concerned want them to be.
Actually, any and all gifts to any governmental official with a value of $25.00 and above must be claimed. If not, you are in a lot of trouble. And by governmental official, this can be the President of the United States or a clerk typist who is a GS3 (for example).
 
I found two articles with scan pages from Majesty Magazine ans Sunday Express 'S' Magazine about Sophie's fashion :)
Enjoy :flowers:
Majesty Magazine
S Magazine


Thanks for those. They are really small, or is it just me? Hard to read the text, but great that Sophie's amazingness is being recognised!

The Countess of Wessex was in Bedford today (that is soooo near me, gutted I was working), opening Lakeview School.

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Royal Visit to Lakeview School

How adorable was Sophie's response to the little girl saying a Princess was coming to the school? Too cute.
 
Thanks for those. They are really small, or is it just me? Hard to read the text, but great that Sophie's amazingness is being recognised!

The Countess of Wessex was in Bedford today (that is soooo near me, gutted I was working), opening Lakeview School.

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Royal Visit to Lakeview School

How adorable was Sophie's response to the little girl saying a Princess was coming to the school? Too cute.
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Thanks Molly :flowers:
This must be a very sweet moment :)
 
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