Amen Warren.
Why all the rummaging around (yet again) to find what we think "she could've, should've,would've?". Skydragon pointed out, correctly, that the Church of Scotland do not say
"Prayers for the Dead!" End of story. All else is tabloid fodder. What the Queen did say is actually unknown. We have no witnesses, no recordings, no evidence that she ordered the exclusion of the "Dead Mother of the poor little Princes" from church prayers no less! That's right up there with pinching the pennies off a dead man's eyes!
We do however, have evidence that
she did not, because the Church of Scotland does not, and somehow I doubt that she had the time out of the disaster that was the "Morning after the night before", to say to herself, "oh, while the boys have cried themselves to sleep, I'll just nip out and have a word with the Minister to ensure their mother is slighted in church today. I mean, well, why waste a perfectly good opportunity to supply the rags with a little more tastless fodder
to really hurt the boys! You'all know "don't you ever let a chance go by, oh Lord, don't you ever let a chance go by!"
"As to the boys asking their father if he was sure their mother was dead?", well, if that
is true it's perfectly normal, and I have heard much the same from a couple of young kids whose mother died far too early. It took time for them to get their heads around the reality, and they didn't have the 24/7 media coverage to contend with.
All the biographers and scriptwriters in the world still can't make it true because they don't know! That includes the BBC and Donald Spoto!
Oh good grief, you're right again Warren! Deja vu? Enough already!